My truly beautiful friend, Trish Buckley, is currently doing her Masters, and one of her first tasks for uni was to write a blog post about digital citizenship. Trish and I love the digital world. I adore it in fact. When my brother died three years ago, my online (and offline) community was divine, and continue to be. In the worst period of my life, I was able to access support 24/7, and when I needed to be alone with my grief, I turned off my devices. But I knew I was never alone. I knew that at the click of a button I would have all the emotional support I needed. In my deepest grief, I met Eden Riley, an online voice who is loud and raw and beautiful. She is now my offline sidekick as well, and actually we spend very little time these days ‘together’ in the digital space. I have felt the power of digital citizenship firsthand and am an active participant in online communities. My lovely Trish has been a longtime offline sidekick, and as our lives have got busier, we actually spend more time together online than offline. Online/offline – sometimes the boundaries blur. Anyway, I digress. Tonight, on her birthday, I want to share with you what Trish wrote about ‘The Sidekicks Saga’, which should never have been a saga. It’s the most lovely example of digital citizenship and I’m so proud of all Trish does online and offline. This post was first published here and has been reproduced with her permission – cause she is Trish, and she is happy to share her words with the online world #withpermission.
Thanks Lovely Lady
So a thing happened yesterday and I got involved–sort of, as much as I do with anything. It’s an example of digital citizenship. It’s where I’m at right now.
I read Will Kostakis’s new young adult novel, The Sidekicks, in December. Long story short: It was in draft form. I sent him a few emails with suggestions and love (for it), and then my friend and former colleague Megan asked me to review it for her blog. I did that.
On the day The Sidekicks was released, February 29, Kostakis came out on his own blog. I quietly cheered him on. I shared his news with a couple of friends through emails, but didn’t do or say anything publicly. I was even hesitant to share his news privately. Who was I to tell people? Then I decided it was okay because Will posted on his blog. You can’t get more public than that.
And I got angry. I spent most of the afternoon, posting, sharing, and commenting (Richardson, 2008).
I felt powerful. I felt engaged. I felt connected.
But the whole time I was mindful. I thought about my language. I re-read before I published. I wanted to remain respectful, and not over step any mark, but I did want my voice to be heard. I wanted to show my support.
I wanted to reach out, and hopefully be part of something bigger, but I was also conscious that these posts would always be there, and reflect my ideology. Plus, I needed to be sensitive to Will’s situation, and cautious for myself (Bailey, 2011).
I want to be someone people trust (Richardson, 2008). In the matter of YA novels, I want to be a reliable and knowledgeable expert, someone who people can turn to. I need to protect my brand.
And then I sat back to watch the fall out. It’s a funny thing to say ‘sat back’. Literally, I did no such thing. I was everywhere I could be. Virtually I mean. Of course that’s where I was.
I read lots of articles (I would link to more, but they all say virtually the same thing). I went to Will’s twitter feed for his view. I saw what people I trusted had said. I conferred. I contemplated. I transitioned from my PC to my iPad, and then to my phone when I left the house. I scouted many different social networks, and news blogs, and took note of comments.
By the end of the day, I felt vindicated. Will received so much support. He even went global. In terms of our relatively small community, we were almost viral (for about 4 hours).
Digital citizenship means participation. It means connection. And it fits seamlessly into our life, without any effort. While I was composing these posts and scanning my twitter feed I was reading an article by Richardson, and organising memberships for CBCA. I cooked dinner, and sat in front of My Kitchen Rules, all the while texting and scanning. My online involvement is pervasive and immersive.
And while I sometimes think no one even notices when I put myself out there, I still have to realise my interactions never disappear. When I look at my entire response, it’s actually quite small. But it meant something to me. I am part of it.
I am not currently employed (in a paid position. The amount of volunteer work I do is ridiculous.) So for now, I will participate in my online communities as best as I can. I will be kind and tolerant. I will think before I post. I will make a difference.
(I will also be more scholarly next time. Probably.)
Ribble, Mike. (2011). Digital citizenship in schools. International Society for Technology in Education.
Richardson, W. (2008). World without Walls: Learning Well with Others. edutopia. Retrieved from edutopia website: http://www.edutopia.org/collaboration-age-technology-will-richardson
Wheeler, S. (2015). Digital Learning Futures: Mind the Gap! YouTube: INTED 2015.
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